373: Overcoming The Wall of Awful, with Brendan Mahan, M.Ed.

About this episode

Your child isn't avoiding that task because they're lazy or defiant. They're standing in front of an invisible wall made of every past failure and hard feeling stacked on top of each other, and getting past it takes real emotional work most of us never see. I'm bringing back Brendan Mahan, ADHD coach, consultant, and creator of the Wall of Awful, to talk about his new book, “Overcoming the Wall of Awful.” Brendan's framework has become one of the most useful shorthand tools I know for understanding behavior as communication in kids who struggle with emotional regulation, nervous system regulation, and the invisible overwhelm that builds up around tasks they've failed at again and again. We…