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The ManFlu | Exploring Gender Dynamics, Partnerships & Raising Boys Who Care

The ManFlu | Exploring Gender Dynamics, Partnerships & Raising Boys Who Care

“You’re Just a Housewife”: Recognizing the Value of Making a House a Home | Lori Sugarman-Li

Sep 2, 2026 · 49m

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What is a life spent caring for a family worth? Our guest learned an insurer's answer the day it reduced hers to three words: just a housewife. The work of making a house a home can hold enormous value and still be assigned none. On The ManFlu, host Lucy McAfee talks with Lori Sugarman-Li, a family systems strategist, speaker, and Certified Fair Play Facilitator, about invisible labor, the mental load, and what children learn from watching who carries the work of home. After a 15-year marketing career with Kraft Foods and Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts, Lori shifted full-time into what she calls the economy of care. Her experience eventually led her to Fair Play , the system created by Eve…