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The ManFlu | Exploring Gender Dynamics, Partnerships & Raising Boys Who Care

The ManFlu | Exploring Gender Dynamics, Partnerships & Raising Boys Who Care

"Did I Agree to This Rule?": Ditching Impossible Standards for Working Parents | Jess Weisz

Aug 26, 2026 · 42m

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Do you ever get to the end of the day, a day where you genuinely never stopped moving, and still feel like you somehow failed? That feeling usually isn't proof that you fell short. It's proof that you're chasing a standard that was never realistic to begin with. Host Lucy McAfee talks with Jess Weisz, former McKinsey consultant, writer, coach, and creator of Rule Breaker, about the invisible standards behind working parent burnout, and why high-achieving parents can spend an entire day getting things done and still feel like they failed. It started with a notebook. Six months postpartum, Jess's partner asked her to write down everything on her mind. What poured out wasn't a to-do list. It…