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Feeding The Mouth That Bites You: Parenting Teens Into Adulthood

Feeding The Mouth That Bites You: Parenting Teens Into Adulthood

Episode 268: Parenting Pitfalls: Are Your Expectations Too High? (Part 1)

Sep 15, 2026 · 32m

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How much should parents actually expect from their teenagers? Good grades. A clean room. Trying hard in sports. Going to church. Being grateful. Making good choices. And preferably doing all of it with a great attitude. 😂 This week, Dr. Ken Wilgus and Cynthia Yanof are talking about unrealistic expectations—and whether giving teens more independence means parents are somehow lowering the bar. Spoiler alert: Dr. Ken says parents aren’t necessarily lowering the bar. They’re handing the bar over to their teen. They cover grades, sports and activities, church and faith, and even gratitude—along with why constantly managing kids toward success can sometimes backfire when those kids eventually…