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Feeding The Mouth That Bites You: Parenting Teens Into Adulthood

Feeding The Mouth That Bites You: Parenting Teens Into Adulthood

Episode 269: Parenting Pitfalls: Are Your Expectations Too High? (Part 2)

Sep 22, 2026 · 32m

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How much freedom should parents actually give their teenagers? Doing their own laundry. Choosing what they wear. Picking their friends. Dating someone you’re not crazy about. Spending their own money. And yes… even tattoos and piercings. This week, Dr. Ken Wilgus and Cynthia Yanof are back for Part 2 of their conversation about reasonable expectations—and what it really looks like to “hand the bar over” as kids get older. They cover laundry and appearance, tattoos and piercings, friendships and dating, money, and honesty—along with the bigger question underneath all of it: When should parents step in, and when is it time to let go? Cynthia also has to rethink her longtime “no tattoos on our…