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Stop Calling Him a “Narcissist” (Use This Word Instead) - The Narcissism Trap Series Part One [366]

Feb 10, 2026 · 17m

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In this kickoff to a powerful new series, The Narcissism Trap , Natalie Hoffman challenges a popular narrative in abuse recovery: labeling an emotionally abusive partner as a “narcissist.” While that term may feel validating at first, Natalie explains how it can actually work against your healing by keeping you locked in the wrong story. If you've been Googling “narcissist” at 2 a.m. to make sense of your painful marriage, this episode is for you. 🎯 Key Takeaways: Stop giving the abuse a medical label. Narcissism is a clinical diagnosis that can distract from the very real pattern of covert oppression you’re living in. Start calling it what it is: oppression. This isn’t about someone who’s…