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Restoring Resilience with Chelsey Brooke Cole

Restoring Resilience with Chelsey Brooke Cole

Why Narcissists Feel Like a Drug: The Social Cocaine Effect with Dr. Daniel Jones

Sep 30, 2026 · 44m

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About this episode

Why does leaving a narcissist feel like withdrawal? Dark triad researcher Dr. Daniel Jones explains his "social cocaine" theory: how a narcissist's artificial charm and grandiosity create a rush that can leave you craving the highs, even after the abuse begins. It's a drug you never consented to, and it can happen to anyone. In this episode of the Restoring Resilience Podcast, Chelsey and Dr. Jones unpack the differences between narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism, how manipulation escalates in stages, and why Machiavellian partners can go undetected for years. They also explore emophilia (the tendency to fall in love fast and often), why early butterflies can be a misleading…