492: Nobody Betrays You? Dr. John Demartini on Values, Priorities, and Why Betrayal Starts With You

About this episode

In this episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Dr. John Demartini, human behavior expert, educator, and author of 40 books, for a conversation that challenges one of the most common assumptions after betrayal: that someone else did this to you. Dr. Demartini opens with a reframe that ruffles feathers on purpose , nobody actually betrays you, betrayal is what happens when you expect someone to live inside your values instead of their own. Together, Dr. Debi and Dr. Demartini explore what that reframe actually looks like in practice, from a story about a girlfriend, a fake quantum physics seminar, and a surprise trip to Venice, to a Calgary client who felt like the underdog in her relationship…