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Girls Gone Deep

Girls Gone Deep

179: She's Poly. Her Fiance is Monogamous. Can a Mono-Poly Relationship Actually Work? feat. Fernanda of Polycurious

Jul 2, 2026 · 1h 10m

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with relationship coach and Polycurious host Fernanda Fabian to unpack one of the most misunderstood relationship dynamics: mono-poly relationships. Fernanda shares how she and her monogamous fiancé built a thriving partnership by moving painfully slow, prioritizing trust, and creating predictable check-ins that made difficult conversations feel safe. Together they explore jealousy, reassurance, boundaries, and why most couples sabotage openness by rushing pas...